When You Are Leaving One Home for Another
The boxes are packed, or maybe they are half-packed and the rest is chaos. The walls that held your life, your Shabbos meals, your children’s first steps, the quiet moments after everyone went to sleep, those walls are about to belong to someone else. And the place you are going to is still just an address. It does not feel like home yet.
Moving is more than logistics. It is an uprooting. The excitement of something new is real, but so is the ache of letting go. You are leaving behind a piece of your story, and the new chapter has not been written yet.
Kapitel 90 is the only tefillah in all of Tehillim attributed to Moshe Rabbeinu. It opens with the words “Hashem, You have been our dwelling place in every generation.” Moshe, who spent forty years leading Klal Yisrael through the desert from one place to the next, understood what it means to move and not yet know where home is. His tefillah meets the need of this moment, and it is why Kapitel 90 has become the prayer before moving homes that Yidden have turned to for generations. Your address is changing, but your true dwelling place, Hashem Himself, does not change.
Before You Say This Tefillah
Before you begin the kapitel, take a moment to stand in the home you are leaving, or sit in whatever space you have. Think about what happened here. The good, the hard, the quiet in-between. Then let go, gently. Let this short tefillah from Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charities prepare your heart for what comes next:
Master of the Universe, Hashem You have been our dwelling place in every generation — and we move from home to home. The uprooting is hard, the parting is painful, and the new is frightening. Accompany us in this transition — that we arrive at the new place in peace. God of Meir, answer me.
If giving tzedakah, add:
In the merit of the tzedakah I give in the merit of Rabbi Meir — who accompanied the wanderers — so may You accompany us. Ribbono Shel Olam, I care for Your children — please care for us.
Kapitel 90: The Full Prayer
Pronunciation guide: “Ch” is pronounced like the “ch” in “Bach,” a soft guttural from the back of the throat. “Ei” sounds like “ay” in “day.”
This is the only tefillah in Tehillim written by Moshe Rabbeinu. He composed it after forty years of leading Klal Yisrael through the midbar, from one encampment to the next, never staying long in one place. He understood what it means to uproot, to pack up, and to trust that Hashem’s presence travels with you. That is why this kapitel begins with the declaration that Hashem is our mo’on, our dwelling place, in every generation. The buildings change. Hashem does not.
[rmbh_prayer_tabs]What These Words Mean for You
“Mo’oin attoh hoyiso lonu b’doir vodoir” — “You have been our dwelling place in every generation.” The shoresh of ma’on (מ-ע-נ) means shelter, a place of refuge. Of all the words Moshe could have used to describe Hashem, he chose the word for “home.” Your apartment might have a lease that expires. Your house might be sold. But Hashem as your ma’on never expires, never gets sold. When you say these words before a move, you are anchoring yourself in the only home that never changes.
“Limnois yomeinu kein hoida” — “Teach us to count our days rightly.” The shoresh of limnot (מ-נ-ה) means to count, to measure. Moving forces you to reckon with time. You count the years you spent in a place, the memories you made there. This passuk asks Hashem to teach you how to count what matters, so that when you leave one home and enter another, you carry wisdom with you, not just furniture.
“Sabb’einu vaboiker chasdecho” — “Satisfy us at daybreak with Your steadfast love.” The shoresh of sab’enu (ש-ב-ע) means to be satisfied, to have enough. After the ache of uprooting, Moshe asks Hashem to fill the new morning with chesed. Moving is often an overnight transformation: you go to sleep in one place and wake up in another. This passuk asks that when you open your eyes in the new home, the first thing you feel is Hashem’s kindness, not loneliness.
“Uma’aseih yodeinu koin’noh oleinu” — “Let the work of our hands prosper.” The shoresh of konena (כ-ו-נ) means to establish, to make firm. Moshe ends this tefillah by asking Hashem to establish the work of our hands. Moving is work, physical and emotional. Hanging pictures, arranging rooms, building routines. This passuk asks Hashem to bless all of that effort, to make the new place feel real and lasting, to turn an address into a home.
How to Say This Prayer Before Moving
Say this tefillah in the days leading up to your move. You can say it in the home you are leaving, as a way of thanking Hashem for the time you had there, and asking Him to come with you. You can say it on moving day itself, before the truck arrives or after the last box is loaded. And you can say it in the new home on the first night, standing in the middle of the unpacked room, asking Hashem to make this place a home. A related tefillah that speaks to this same yearning is the prayer when housing feels unstable.
There is no special posture. Stand or sit. What matters is your kavanah. Before you begin, close your eyes and tell Hashem: Ribbono Shel Olam, I am leaving one place and going to another. I do not know what the new place will bring. But I know You have been my home through every move I have ever made, and I trust You will be my home through this one too.
The Gemara in Moed Katan (18a) teaches that changing one’s makom can change one’s mazel. Moving is not just physical. It is a spiritual reset. The Rema (Yoreh De’ah 179:2) brings the minhag of saying a special tefillah when entering a new home, because the transition between spaces is a moment of both vulnerability and opportunity. Pair this tefillah with tzedakah in the zechus of Rabbi Meir Baal Haness, and you turn that vulnerable moment into a powerful one. You are not davening to Rabbi Meir. You are asking Hashem to hear your tefillah in the merit of a tzaddik who spent his life accompanying Yidden through their most difficult transitions. Elokah d’Meir aneni!
Give Tzedakah for Your New Beginning
The Gemara in Avodah Zarah (18a-18b) tells how Bruria, the wife of Rabbi Meir, asked him to rescue her sister who had been taken captive by the Romans and placed in a situation of terrible shame. Rabbi Meir took a purse of money and went to the guard. He offered the guard a bribe and taught him to say “Elaha d’Meir aneni!” — “God of Meir, answer me!” — if he was ever in danger. The guard asked for proof that the words would protect him. Rabbi Meir pointed to attack dogs nearby, said the phrase, and the dogs turned away. Convinced, the guard released Bruria’s sister. Later, when the Romans discovered what happened, the guard was sentenced to hang — but he said “Elaha d’Meir aneni!” and was saved. The Romans then put up wanted posters of Rabbi Meir, and he was forced to flee to Bavel.
Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charities was founded in 1799. For over two centuries, the charity has supported Torah scholars and the poor in Eretz Yisrael. Talmidei chachamim in Tiberias daven by name for those who give. When you give tzedakah before your move, your name goes to scholars who will carry your tefillah alongside their own. Your new home begins with the zechus of Torah and chesed behind it.
Kapitel 121 says: “Hashem yishmor tzeischo u’vo’echo” — Hashem will guard your going out and your coming in. The Metzudas Dovid explains that the “going out” is leaving the old, and the “coming in” is entering the new. Both need guarding. Tzedakah is one way to ask for that protection.
Give Tzedakah for Your New Beginning
Prayer and Practical Steps Together
Tefillah covers what only Hashem can do. Hishtadlus covers everything your hands can reach.
Start packing early. The stress of a last-minute move multiplies every difficulty. Label boxes by room so that when you arrive, unpacking has a clear path. If you are hiring movers, research them carefully. Ask for references. Check reviews. A trustworthy moving team removes a major source of worry.
Transfer your utilities, mail, and important accounts before the move, not after. The fewer loose ends waiting for you at the new place, the calmer the first few days will be.
If you have children, talk to them about the move. Children feel transitions deeply, and a conversation about what is changing and what is staying the same can ease their hearts. Bring something familiar into the new home right away, a blanket, a familiar toy, a picture, something that says “home” before the boxes are unpacked.
On your first night in the new place, even if the kitchen is not set up and you are eating takeout on the floor, bentsch. Say a brachah in the new space. That first brachah makes the walls Jewish. It is a small act that carries real spiritual weight. You may find additional comfort in the prayer finding home, a tefillah that speaks from the same place.
And if the new place does not feel like home right away, give it time. Hashem plants people in places for reasons you cannot always see on moving day. Trust the process. Daven in the new place, have guests over, light Shabbos candles. Home is not built in a day.
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[rmbh_faq]A Blessing for Your New Home
May the home you are walking into become everything the home you are leaving was, and more. May its walls hear Torah, its table host guests, its rooms hold laughter and menuchas hanefesh. May the transition be smooth, the settling in be gentle, and may you quickly feel at home. And may Hashem, who has been our mo’on in every generation, be your mo’on in this one too. You are not moving alone. He goes with you.
You can submit a prayer request to the scholars of Tiberias at no cost — they will daven for your safe move by name through Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charities. And if you would like to give tzedakah in Rabbi Meir’s zechus as well, your kindness will rise together with your prayer.
